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Happy independent child baking messy

Success Training, Not Micro-Managing

Sandy Blackard

Mom leading children

Where “Shoulds” Come From (and how to send them back)

Sandy Blackard

Fighting over swing

I want it! You’re not my friend anymore!

Sandy Blackard

Happy Child with Stuffed Animals

Too Fun to Leave — Not Fair!

Sandy Blackard

Crying boy

Why I Let Kids Cry

Dr. Betsy Blackard

Boy happy with himself

“You nearly hit her!”

Sandy Blackard

Ending Swim Lesson Meltdowns

Swim Class Success Training

Sandy Blackard

"I'm not hurt!"

Q & A: Contrary Child

Dr. Betsy Blackard

Tender Mother Daughter Moment after Harsh Words

Undoing Harsh Words

Sandy Blackard

Mother and Son Hugging After A Tantrum

Tantrum Relief — Meeting the Three Basic Needs

Sandy Blackard

Child playing doctor

Overcoming Fear Of Needles

Sandy Blackard

Say What You See for Older Kids and Teens

SAY WHAT YOU SEE® with Older Kids and Teens

Sandy Blackard

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