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I kept doing this same thing each morning, expecting a different result…

Posted by on Mar 15, 2024 in Blog, Coaching Kids, Coaching You | 0 comments

I kept doing this same thing each morning, expecting a different result…

Guest post by Dalia Liolia, Authorized Language of Listening® Coach: I was overloaded. I was wearing my laptop bag on one shoulder and my heavy purse on the other, holding my travel coffee mug and car keys in my hands with my one-liter water bottle under my arm, ready to open the door and leave for work. Plus, I was running late. “Guys, I’m leav-i-i-i-ng!” Both my children ran to hug me. “Bye mom!” They asked me to bend so they could kiss me. And then bend again so I could kiss them. And then again. And then once...

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KUT 90.5 Interview

Posted by on May 30, 2023 in Blog | 0 comments

LEARNING TO LISTEN   Julie Moody of KUT 90.5 interviews Sandy Blackard, founder of Language of Listening®:   https://languageoflistening.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/08/JULIE121609.mp3 “Ask any parent, and they will tell you that parenting is a lifelong learning experience. Most come to it ill-equipped, with little experience or training at first, and learn the skills needed with mistakes made along the way. But what if you could improve your parenting skills by simply learning to listen more? There is a training for...

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How do I know if I’m a good parent?

Posted by on Apr 13, 2022 in Blog, Coaching Kids, Coaching You | 0 comments

How do I know if I’m a good parent?

There’s a real reason you might not know what kind of a job you are doing as a parent. Rachel Norman, Authorized Language of Listening® Coach and author of A Mother Far from Home blog, shared this huge epiphany with her newsletter readers and gave me permission to share it with you. It makes our modern dilemma crystal clear. … So anyway, I was reading this one excerpt [from a parenting book from the 1990’s] and it hit me — one reason moms today are so strung out and stressed and lacking confidence mothers of decades...

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Big Reactions To Cancellations

Posted by on Mar 31, 2020 in Blog | 4 comments

Big Reactions To Cancellations

The world is, collectively, going through a very unusual time right now. People all over the world are trying to avoid exposure to a virus that we still don’t understand completely. Schools and offices are closing, social gatherings are being cancelled, and everyone is being asked to work or stay at home. Along with all of these disruptions come lots of feelings: fear for the safety of yourself and your loved ones; uncertainty about the future—how long it will last, how bad it might get; stress from lots of sudden, often rough...

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Success Training—Helping Littles Wait

Posted by on Mar 31, 2020 in Blog, Coaching Kids | 0 comments

Success Training—Helping Littles Wait

For toddlers and preschoolers, waiting is extra hard!! This may be a universal maxim, but that doesn’t make trying to work from home while your littles are home with you any easier. This does! Improve your child’s self-control and improve your relationship with your child with Success Training. Success Training Starts Right Where Your Child Is First, ask your child how long they CAN wait and start there. For some children, it may be 5 minutes, for some 10, and for some, maybe only 30 seconds! However long it is, you can set a timer,...

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4 Tips To Help Kids Wait

Posted by on Mar 30, 2020 in Blog, Coaching Kids, Coaching You | 2 comments

4 Tips To Help Kids Wait

“Look! Look at me! Look what I can do! Look what I made!” Sound familiar? Many parents are getting a crash course in the unique challenges and rewards of working from home with children. It’s hard for everybody—your kids need your attention, and spending time with your children is important to you, too. So when you both want to spend time together, but other things need to get done, what can you do? That question is your hint: figure out what you and your child CAN DO! 1. Set aside talk time The first thing you CAN DO helps you and...

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Money—What if it really could “just show up”?

Posted by on Oct 18, 2019 in Blog, Coaching You | 2 comments

Money—What if it really could “just show up”?

I’ve been looking at the concept of abundance lately and discovered I’ve been very sad that my heart’s desire to have money just show up has not panned out. Before you jump in to offer advice on how that’s not realistic, let me say that I’m keenly aware of how fantasy-like that sounds. But I am also aware that something about it is right for me. It has to be because it is something I have always wanted, and in keeping with what I teach—you are always right about what you want somehow—I decided to track down...

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Responding to Rudeness, Stubbornness and Defiance

Posted by on Oct 18, 2019 in Blog, Coaching Kids | 6 comments

Responding to Rudeness, Stubbornness and Defiance

Language of Listening® Coach, Camilla Miller of Keeping Your Cool Parenting shares what every parent needs to know when their child is acting out. Reprinted from her blog with permission.   The Most Powerful Way to Handle a Rude, Aggressive or Defiant Child. Her cheeks red, kicking out at anyone who dared come close. “You can’t make me!” she howled. And she was right! This was my life, and my daughter’s defiance, rudeness and disrespect were pushing my buttons. No. End. All these thoughts would rush through my mind: “If she...

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How to Respond to “Bad” Intentions

Posted by on Aug 9, 2019 in Blog, Coaching Kids | 0 comments

How to Respond to “Bad” Intentions

Responding to your child’s intentions rather than their actions can bring out their greatness in an instant. When a child makes a mistake or accidentally damages something or hurts someone, recognizing the child’s true intention and pointing it out tells them that you understand the real them. The relief they feel is instant, and knowing you are on their side allows them to apologize from the heart. You can see this demonstrated by the little boy who squirted my tee-shirt with red juice in the first chapter of my book, SAY WHAT YOU...

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Pretending to Be an Adult

Posted by on Aug 9, 2019 in Blog, Coaching You | 0 comments

Pretending to Be an Adult

If someone “acting like a child” annoys you, you might have had to grow up too soon. How to step more fully into your adulthood, reclaim your childhood, and regain your patience all at the same time? Julia Kurskaya, parent coach and graduate of our Coaches Training program, walks you through her breakthrough, shared here by permission: In my favorite fifteen-minutes-of-peace while I put my toddler down for a nap, something came to me today. I realized what could be lurking behind my persistent...

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