About Us

Language of Listening® is here to provide life coaching skills you can use in daily interactions with children that help you see children with new eyes. Changing what you see makes it easy to change how you respond.

Nowhere will you find a simpler or more positive approach for coaching children or yourself. We believe that children are inherently great and the parents’ and teachers' job is to help them see it. We provide simple tools for finding hidden greatness in your child and yourself.

The Language of Listening heart model is a simple coaching tool for bringing out the best in your child and yourself in just three steps. 

And we’ve got the results to prove it. For over ten years thousands of parents and teachers using Language of Listening have been seeing the children in their care become straight-talking problem-solvers who know their strengths. No bribes, no punishment; just parents and teachers understanding and enjoying their kids. So what’s the secret?  SAY WHAT YOU SEE®.

SAY WHAT YOU SEE is the core of all of our programs.

Whether applied to children or yourself, saying what you see opens your eyes to a deeper kind of listening that begins with your eyes and ends with your heart. The connection that is created by this powerful coaching skill can change difficult moments into rewarding ones in an instant.

SAY WHAT YOU SEE gives you one place to start:

  • to respond rather than react;
  • to dissolve and prevent tantrums,
  • to shift discipline issues into creative CAN DO solutions,
  • to put children in touch with their hidden STRENGTHs.

SAY WHAT YOU SEE is the missing step in parenting, teaching and personal growth.

We are here to deliver it to the world.

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Our Premises (Coach's Perspective):

  • Everything children do and say is a communication.
    Children must continue to communicate until they are heard.
  • All children have every possible inner strength.
    Children act according to who they believe they are.
  • All behaviors are driven by healthy needs.
    Children need 3 things: experience, connection, power.
  • All growth is through acceptance.
    Children set exactly the right level of challenge for growth.

We would love to hear from you.

Feel free to Contact Us at any time about our work, our website, or other possibilities for working together.