About SAY WHAT YOU SEE (SWYS) - The Missing Step in Parenting

Language of Listening™ is for parents like you who want more than just well-behaved kids.

You don’t have to choose between good behavior and a good relationship with your child. With our innovative approach, YOU CAN HAVE BOTH!

Our simple three-part approach gets you more hugs and more respect each time you use it. It’s simple because it always starts with one thing: SAY WHAT YOU SEE™ – the missing step in parenting!

Seeing is the key. Since what you see is different in each situation, what you say is, too. You don’t need complicated instructions for getting children to move quickly, stop fighting, finish homework, do chores, brush teeth, go to bed, etc.

All you need is a new way to see that makes what to say OBVIOUS, and three simple tools that make what to do EFFECTIVE.

Parents love it:

“It’s like learning to see with new eyes!” – Maite (children 4, 6)

“I’ve been using the Language of Listening™ with my children this week, and I am seeing some incredible changes already. I cannot believe all the hugs, kisses, and I love yous — and I have ENJOYED my children in an amazing way!” – Jenn (sons 2, 4)

“Saying what you see is a great, easy way to relate to a child without getting stuck in ‘What should I say?’ What to say is right in front of you – you just need to put it into words objectively. I can always do that!” – Beth (children 3, 7)

To start using the Language of Listening™ right now to change challenging moments with your child into rewarding ones:

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