Posts Tagged "can’t"

When “Can=Have To”

When “Can=Have To”

Whenever I'm nearing a big breakthrough, I can tell. As a belief that I don't like begins to show up in my life, my energy drops, I withdraw and feel depressed. That makes sense before a breakthrough because at the moment, the belief feels very, very true, which can make it very, very real, and in this case, very, very sad...because I was looking at giving up. Luckily, as a personal growth...

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Doing the Impossible $$

Doing the Impossible $$

I was emailing a writer friend, Laurie Cosbey, and this popped out. If you want to see my self-coaching process, this is me, tracking down a false belief to arrive at a powerful Say What You See phrase for myself: 9:23 AM email to Laurie: Yes, SWYS is a simple how-to for getting present - the place of all experience, connection and power. There they are  - the three basic needs* that can only...

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The Brilliance of “I can’t”

The Brilliance of “I can’t”

Who thought I'd ever have anything good to say about my life-long complaint: "I can't." C'mon. Even the coaching approach I designed has CAN DOs. But I'm starting to see its brilliance: it's my get-out-of trouble card. I'm currently in Carolyn Scarborough's Backyard Pearls Writing Telecourse. I signed up because I always wanted to work with her and thought it would help me complete my second...

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