Posts Tagged "proof"
Boundary Trouble?
All boundaries are not equal. Here are three types: Natural boundaries: "Fire is not for touching, because you will get burned." "Poison ivy is not for picking, because your skin will blister and itch." "Baby sister is not for shaking, because that will hurt her brain." Social boundaries: "Clothing is worn in public, because your body is private." ...
Read MoreSuccess Training, Not Micro-Managing
Our friend Rachel Macy Stafford's post, The Manager in My Home & the Five Words that Changed Everything, documents her shift from micro-managing to empowering her daughters. She requested my assistance when dozens of questions flooded in from parents all over the world about how to put perfectionism aside and provide guidance without micro-managing and criticizing. One of the points I made...
Read MoreDoing the Impossible $$
I was emailing a writer friend, Laurie Cosbey, and this popped out. If you want to see my self-coaching process, this is me, tracking down a false belief to arrive at a powerful Say What You See phrase for myself: 9:23 AM email to Laurie: Yes, SWYS is a simple how-to for getting present - the place of all experience, connection and power. There they are - the three basic needs* that can only...
Read MoreSibling Rivalry
Child: "You always buy her whatever she wants! You never do that for me! You love her more!" When your child challenges your fairness, remember to say what the child is feeling without defending your actions. This is harder than it sounds since we are programmed to defend. But, if a child fusses about unfair treatment and we jump in with all kinds of defenses like, "I bought her those shoes...
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