Posts Tagged "SWYS"
Avoiding Toddler-Baby Rivalry – 7 Tips
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“Stop poking the baby!” When siblings are close in age, the toddler years can be extra challenging. How do you keep your cool and keep their relationship strong when your 2 YO starts poking your 9 MO baby? Here are some tips for using Language of Listening® to succeed: 1. Target specific STRENGTHs. Identify STRENGTHs that will help your child experience him/herself as a...
Read MoreShould I End Indecision, Or…?
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I have always been indecisive. I like to joke that it’s because of my astrological sign: Libra (the scales) which is all about weighing options. According to an astrology website, “Libra’s indecisiveness is caused by the fear that a wrong decision will…cause turmoil in their lives.” Sounds about right. Another classic case of my ambiguity is my name. My own mom...
Read MoreThe Importance of Validation
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Validation by SAYing WHAT YOU SEE (SWYS) is one of the simplest and most effective coaching skills. This is true in any interpersonal situation, but especially with kids. I was at a restaurant recently where a large family had gathered for a birthday celebration. It was the end of the meal, and a little girl (about 4) was running around the table and playing. Suddenly she tripped and fell...
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