Posts Tagged "SWYS"

Avoiding Toddler-Baby Rivalry – 7 Tips

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Avoiding Toddler-Baby Rivalry – 7 Tips

“Stop poking the baby!” When siblings are close in age, the toddler years can be extra challenging. How do you keep your cool and keep their relationship strong when your 2 YO starts poking your 9 MO baby? Here are some tips for using Language of Listening® to succeed:   1. Target specific STRENGTHs. Identify STRENGTHs that will help your child experience him/herself as a...

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Should I End Indecision, Or…?

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Should I End Indecision, Or…?

I have always been indecisive. I like to joke that it’s because of my astrological sign:  Libra (the scales) which is all about weighing options. According to an astrology website, “Libra’s indecisiveness is caused by the fear that a wrong decision will…cause turmoil in their lives.” Sounds about right. Another classic case of my ambiguity is my name. My own mom...

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The Importance of Validation

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The Importance of Validation

Validation by SAYing WHAT YOU SEE (SWYS) is one of the simplest and most effective coaching skills. This is true in any interpersonal situation, but especially with kids. I was at a restaurant recently where a large family had gathered for a birthday celebration.  It was the end of the meal, and a little girl (about 4) was running around the table and playing. Suddenly she tripped and fell...

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