Posts Tagged "not like"

Boundary Trouble?

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Boundary Trouble?

All boundaries are not equal. Here are three types: Natural boundaries:   "Fire is not for touching, because you will get burned."   "Poison ivy is not for picking, because your skin will blister and itch."   "Baby sister is not for shaking, because that will hurt her brain."   Social boundaries:   "Clothing is worn in public, because your body is private."   ...

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Wrong 3

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Wrong 3

Applying more logic to the collapse equation "not liking = wrong" -- if things have to be wrong for me to not like them, then clearly I believe I have to like everything since I believe everything is "right" somehow. Dang-it! It's so true. Just like Betsyyyy said in her comment on the previous entry "Wrong 2" Funny how you can know you think something, but not really know you think it until you...

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Wrong!

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I'm working on a new breakthrough around the concept "wrong." So far I've been able to see how it works in relationship to my childhood inability to say what I don't like. If I make something wrong, then I'm justified in not liking it. Ta-Da! That's as far as I've gotten, but I can see it's the core of judgment in my life. Perhaps it will stir some thoughts in you that you could share, though I...

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