Posts Tagged "collapse"

Stress-free Generosity & Inclusion

Posted by in Blog, Coaching You | 0 comments

Stress-free Generosity & Inclusion

The holidays are a time for generosity and including others. If you feel stressed about either one, this might be why. 1. Generosity is natural when you have plenty. Generosity is fun and easy when your well-being is not threatened. So if it is not fun and easy for you, consider that you might have it conflated with sacrifice. How do you know? If giving away extras doesn't count as generosity,...

Read More

Wrong 3

Posted by in Blog, Coaching You | 10 comments

Wrong 3

Applying more logic to the collapse equation "not liking = wrong" -- if things have to be wrong for me to not like them, then clearly I believe I have to like everything since I believe everything is "right" somehow. Dang-it! It's so true. Just like Betsyyyy said in her comment on the previous entry "Wrong 2" Funny how you can know you think something, but not really know you think it until you...

Read More

Wrong 2

Posted by in Blog, Coaching You | 0 comments

This morning I realized that not only do I not like everything that is "wrong" as I said in the previous post, (of course, how could I?) but it goes the other way, too. Everything I don't like is just plain "wrong." Here's the equation for the collapsed concepts: not liking = wrong. Interesting how completely true this is for me. I've got to do a Breakfast with Sandy segment on this. [Look at...

Read More